Harmony Books - 2014
My Gentle Barn, a memoir, tells the
story of Ellie Laks’ troubled childhood, feeling misunderstood and abandoned by
her Jewish Orthodox parents and sexual abused by baby sitters. She relates that
her early love of animals, to which she turned to for solace, helped to heal
her emotional pain. From an early age Ellie had a dream to rescue neglected and abandoned animals. She
wanted other troubled children to have a place to go where animals could help
to heal their hurts.
According
to the
author, the Gentle Barn began one a small scale in an effort to rescue homeless and neglected dogs, right in her own backyard . Later she expanded her rescue to include pigs, goats and cows and
quickly outgrowing her initial quarters. She was able to purchase a
much large, more appropriate property, in part, thanks to a trust fund.
This new property
allowed her to continue her mission of helping more animals and healing
more
children. In 1999 the Gentle Barn animal sanctuary in Santa Clarita,
California has open to the general public and has been helping animals and
healing at-risk children. In a NY Times
article, I read that according to Ellie’s husband, it takes about
$50,000 a month to operate the Gentle Barn. The money has come from
individual donations, through the Gentle Barn website, as well as from private
family donations, corporate grants and foundations. Major donors have included
Ellen DeGeneres, Toyota, CBS, William Morris Endeavor and Princess
Cruises.
When asked early on why she does
what she does, she replied, “You
don’t understand. I’m not saving the animals; they’re saving me." Her stories
about nursing the rescued animals back to health from deplorable conditions seemed
genuine and heartfelt, and her love and concern for the animals welfare admirable. I
loved her devotion to help troubled kids and how she was able to get some of them to trust
through their interactions with the animals.
Although
her
memoir is inspiring and she is to be commended for her work, I never
felt any
sympathy for Ellie. Yes, she claimed her childhood was difficult, and
the path to the Gentle Barn, involved lots of stumbling blocks. She also
made a lot of bad decisions in her life. She
spent 3-years as a crack addict, married, divorced, had unplanned
pregnancies, remarried and ended up with significant financial issues.
Some of her recantations just did not ring true
for me, making me wonder whether
parts of the memoir might
have been embellished or even fabricated.
After
finishing
this memoir, a book which I am happy that I read, I started
“googling"
The Gentle Barn and Ellie Laks” and came across (2) interesting links which
made wonder about the validity of what I read in this book. I think that while The Gentle
Barn is and continues to do good work, there may be another side to the
story which the reader has not
been privy to. One of these links of concern was
posted by the author’s own brother in response to this memoir. View HERE.
The other link is from a blog post on another animal
advocate’s website. View HERE.
I guess readers will be left to form their own opinions. One thing I do know is that I’d love to visit
The Gentle Barn. As a lover of all animals, I’m pretty sure I would love
spending a day there.
4/5 stars (eGalley and audiobook)