Sunday, October 17, 2021

Book Review - The Book of Mother; Violaine Huisman

 


The Book of Mother; Violaine Huisman

Scribner & Simon & Schuster Audio - 10/19/2021

Translated from French by Leslie Camhi, The Book of Mother, is a deeply moving and, at times, a rather painful read.  It is a story about dysfunctional mother/daughter relationships: what goes on and how the individuals are affected by the emotional trauma and abuse later in life. 

The mother, Catherine, A.K.A. "Maman" is a beautiful but broken woman who suffers from mental illness in the form of manic depression.  Her daughters Violaine age 10 and Elsa, age 12 are the victims of their mother's instability in the form of sometimes violent mood swings and just an overall pervasive chaotic, unpredictable home environment.  The story takes place in Paris in the wake of Catherine's third marriage falling apart.  There is a horrible scene when she deliberately drives her car into traffic with the two daughters in the car.  Fortunately, everyone survives but it's clear that Catherine needs an intervention and  psychiatric stay.  The girl's father (second husband of Catherine) isn't interested in being tied down raising his daughters so the girls try to hide their situation from school officials - at least for a while.

The story is told in three parts - first by young Violaine (yes, same first name as the author but this is debut fiction, one which has a semi-autobiographical feel.)   We learn through Violaine what went on in the household and how she and her sister tried to understand the many things they witnessed and how their mother could mistreat them as she often did.  We also learn about Catherine's early life through a third person POV, which helps the reader understand what has "perhaps" happened early on to cause her to behave as he does and what triggers her violent mood swings.  Finally, the last part deals with the sisters as adults and trying to process what they have endured try to move forward with their adult lives.

I'm always interested in stories involving dysfunctional/mother daughter relationships.  Catherine comes across as vain and self-absorbed yet, there were moments when I felt for her and what had happened to her when she was younger.  This is a tough read but, it is well-written and the translation is excellent as well.  One thing that struck me was how much these sisters loved their deeply flawed mother despite all they had to endure.  Potential readers should be aware of potential triggers: sexual abuse, mental illness, substance abuse and suicide.

Rating - 4/5 stars

This was a combo read/listen for me. The audiobook was narrated by Tosca Hopkins who did a very good job. The eGalley and audio download were provided to me at no cost by the publisher and Edelweiss in exchange for my unbiased review.

13 comments:

  1. I think this would be a difficult read for me, but obviously, you found value in it. It does sound quite well written.

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    1. I do like to understand what makes some mothers emotionally or physically abusive, and unable to show love.

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  2. I love mother/daughter and sister's stories. This sounds good but the emotional & physical abuse would be hard for me. I don't understand it.

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    1. I'm drawn to these stories as well but, can't understand people who abuse children and animals - just so sad.

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  3. I really like the way this one is constructed in a way that manages to tell the story from different points of view. It's a difficult subject, for sure, but it sounds like one of those books that have something to say about why we are the way we are.

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    1. What you say is so true Sam. What happened to us then affects who we have become....good or bad.

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  4. Wow this sounds intense but well done. I like complicated family relationships and this sounds like an interesting read. Interesting choice by the author to use her name for one of the daughter's names.

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    1. Yes, the fact that the author named the younger daughter the same as hers made it feel all the more semi-autobiographical.

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  5. I love mother/daughter stories too and this is one I'm very interested in. I'm glad that it proved to be a good read. Isn't the cover stunning?

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  6. I loved this cover and the story really stunned me at times. It really sounded somewhat autobiographical IMO.

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  7. Wow this novel sounds pretty dark. Deliberately driving your car into traffic! But the setting of Paris ... seems nice.

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