Saturday, January 22, 2011

How To Read the Air; Dinaw Mengestu


Title: How To Read the Air
Author: Dinaw Mengestu
Publication Year: 2010
Publisher: Riverhead Books
Edition: Hardcover and Audio Book
Source: Personal copy and Library audio book
Date Completed: 1/18/2011
Setting:  Illinois and New York City
Rating: 4.5/5 stars
Recommend: Yes

How To Read the Air, tells the story of the immigrant experience in America across two generations.

Jonas Woldemariam is the American born son of Ethiopian-immigrant parents, Yosef and Mariam. As an only child, Jonas bore witness to the tumultuous relationship of his parents on a somewhat regular basis, and according to him, he was acutely aware of a shift in the air prior to any outburst. 
"As soon as my father said the last two words of that sentence, he felt an abrupt and dramatic shift in the air that precedes any violent confrontation. Something vibrated, buzzed ."
As an adult, Jonas meets and later marries Angela, a woman he met while working at a refugee center in New York City. Angela is a young attorney and later Jonas finds work as an English teacher at an academy in the city. He talks about pursuing his Phd in literature, but never takes action. He is aloof,  passive, emotionally numb, avoids conflict, and has never seemed to fit in, even as a child. His wife Angela has had a less than perfect childhood as well, and brings baggage from her past into the marriage.

When Jonas' estranged  father dies, he decides to take a breather from his frayed marriage, leaving his wife, his job, and New York behind as he sets out on a cross country journey to trace the path his parents took some 30 years earlier as they began their life together in the US. By tracing his parents belated honeymoon trip from Peoria, Illinois to Nashville, Tennessee, he begins to understand his roots, the emotional wounds of war, and the isolation and insecurities his parents faced after escaping Ethiopia.

As Jonas, tells the story of his life as well as his family's history, the reader is never really sure as to what is real, and what has been fabricated or embellished from his memory as a child.  The reader sees early on that lying, or embellishing the truth seems to come easily to Jonas, his mother, and even to his wife, Angela.  His mother for example, says that she came from royalty in Ethiopia; Angela made up stories about her own childhood, and Jonas embellishes the paperwork of refugees at the agency he had worked, to make their stories sound more interesting. He also lies to his class when telling him a story about his father.

As Jonas searches his parent's past, the reader is taken on a journey into war-torn Ethiopia, where his parents grew up, as well as a glimpse at their hopes for a better life here in America -- all through he eyes of a son who tells it, as he imagines it.  Jonas' stories are compelling as he tells of Yosef and Mariam's volatile relationship. He recalls the numerous times his mother packed and unpacked their suitcases, waking him in the middle of the night to say that they were going on a road trip, but rarely getting any further than a local motel or shelter.
"Life for my mother was lived in the spaces between departures".
As a child, Jonas learns how to avoid conflict and stay out of the way.
"I realized that all I had to do to avoid him was to blend into the background. That knowledge followed me from there, so eventually I thought of my obscurity as being essential to my survival. Whoever can't see you can't hurt you. That was the reigning philosophy of my days."
There was so much I liked about this book. I started out listening to the audio book; the narrator, Corey Allen was excellent, however, some of the passages really seemed to resonate with me, so that I found myself frequently referring to the hard cover edition as well.  The writing is beautiful and detailed and the story intimate. The way the story unfolds is extremely satisfying. I love introspective stories, and this one gets high marks in that area. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED.


I enjoyed this video by and about the author and his book. I hope you like it as well.

Saturday Snapshot - January 22

Saturday Snapshot is  hosted by Alyce @  At Home With Books. To participate in the Saturday Snapshot meme post a photo that you (or a friend or family member) have taken then leave a direct link to your post in the Mister Linky. Photos can be old or new, and be of any subject as long as they are clean and appropriate for all eyes to see. How much detail you give in the caption is entirely up to you. No random photos that you find online.


Both of my brothers have passed away: (Ron-left in 2009) and (Jim-right in 2006). Today would have been Ron's 69th birthday, so posting this photo seemed appropriate. Photo was taken about 10 year's ago at Jim's home.

Friday, January 21, 2011

My Favorite Fiction Books 2001 - 2010

I was thinking about some of the wonderful books that I've read over the last (10) years. Each, was a story that made me long to read more of the same.  I decided to reflect on these favorites, hoping to inspire me to get excited about another book in the same way. (I've read a few good books in 2011, but nothing that will make my favorites list for 2011). Here are my #1 picks for (2001 - 2010):

2001
(the audio book was excellent) 
(from Library Journal).....Tan's narration represents the perspectives of both the Chinese-born mother and the American-born daughter. Ruth, a successful freelance ghostwriter, has lived for nine years with her partner and his two daughters. She is the only child of LuLing, who was widowed shortly after Ruth was born. Now in her mid-forties, Ruth begins to examine her feelings toward her mother, her relationship with her partner, and her career. In the midst of her emotional confusion, she rediscovers her mother's handwritten story of her life in China. After arranging for a translation, Ruth learns some long-hidden truths about her family, which help her to appreciate her mother better. Tan explores the conflicts faced by many women who seek independence while caring for partners, children, and family. She writes with compassion about the tension between immigrant parents and American-born children caused by differences in language and cultural upbringing. This is another fine novel by an important American author.

2002
The Lovely Bones; Alice Sebold

(from Library Journal) - a powerful first novel, narrated by Susie Salmon, in heaven. Brutally raped and murdered by a deceptively mild-mannered neighbor, Susie begins with a compelling description of her death. During the next ten years, she watches over her family and friends as they struggle to cope with her murder. She observes their disintegrating lives with compassion and occasionally attempts, sometimes successfully, to communicate her love to them. Although the lives of all who knew her well are shaped by her tragic death, eventually her family and friends survive their pain and grief. In Sebold's heaven, Susie continues to grow emotionally. She learns that human existence is "the helplessness of being alive, the dark bright pity of being human feeling as you went, groping in corners and opening your arms to light all of it part of navigating the unknown." Sebold's compelling and sometimes poetic prose style and unsparing vision transform Susie's tragedy into an ultimately rewarding novel.

2003
Life of Pi; Yann Martel
(wonderful audio experience)

(audio book description) - Pi Patel has been raised in a zoo in India. When his father decides to move the family to Canada and sell the animals to American zoos, everyone boards a Japanese cargo ship. The ship sinks, and 16-year-old Pi finds himself alone on a lifeboat with a hyena, an orangutan, a zebra with a broken leg, and a 450-pound Bengal tiger.

Soon it's just Pi, the tiger, and the vast Pacific Ocean - for 227 days. Pi's fear, knowledge, and cunning keep him alive until they reach the coast of Mexico, where the tiger disappears into the jungle. The Japanese authorities who interrogate Pi refuse to believe his story, so he tells a second one - more conventional, less fantastic. But is it more true?

A realistic, rousing adventure and meta-tale of survival, Life of Pi explores the redemptive power of storytelling and the transformative nature of fiction. It's a story, as one character claims, to "make you believe in God."

2004
  Middlesex; Jeffrey Eugenides

(from Library Journal) - Eugenides's second novel (after The Virgin Suicides) opens "I was born twice: first, as a baby girl...in January of 1960; and then again, as a teenage boy...in August of 1974." Thus starts the epic tale of how Calliope Stephanides is transformed into Cal. Spanning three generations and two continents, the story winds from the small Greek village of Smyrna to the smoggy, crime-riddled streets of Detroit, past historical events, and through family secrets. The author's eloquent writing captures the essence of Cal, a hermaphrodite, who sets out to discover himself by tracing the story of his family back to his grandparents. From the beginning, the reader is brought into a world rich in culture and history, as Eugenides extends his plot into forbidden territories with unique grace. His confidence in the story, combined with his sure prose, helps readers overcome their initial surprise and focus on the emotional revelation of the characters and beyond. Once again, Eugenides proves that he is not only a unique voice in modern literature but also well versed in the nature of the human heart.

2005
Snow Flower and the Secret Fan; Lisa See 

(from Library Journal) - Lily at 80 reflects on her life, beginning with her daughter days in 19th-century rural China. Foot-binding was practiced by all but the poorest families, and the graphic descriptions of it are not for the fainthearted. Yet women had nu shu, their own secret language. At the instigation of a matchmaker, Lily and Snow Flower, a girl from a larger town and supposedly from a well-connected, wealthy family, become laotong, bound together for life. Even after Lily learns that Snow Flower is not from a better family, even when Lily marries above her and Snow Flower beneath her, they remain close, exchanging nu shu written on a fan. When war comes, Lily is separated from her husband and children. She survives the winter helped by Snow Flower's husband, a lowly butcher, until she is reunited with her family. As the years pass, the women's relationship changes; Lily grows more powerful in her community, bitter, and harder, until at last she breaks her bond with Snow Flower. They are not reunited until Lily tries to make the dying Snow Flower's last days comfortable. Their friendship, and this tale, illustrates the most profound of human emotions: love and hate, self-absorption and devotion, pride and humility, to name just a few. Even though the women's culture and upbringing may be vastly different from readers' own, the life lessons are much the same, and they will be remembered long after the details of this fascinating story are forgotten.
2006
 Water for Elephants; Sara Gruen
(amazon) - 
An atmospheric, gritty, and compelling novel of star-crossed lovers, set in the circus world circa 1932, by the bestselling author of Riding Lessons.

When Jacob Jankowski, recently orphaned and suddenly adrift, jumps onto a passing train, he enters a world of freaks, drifters, and misfits, a second-rate circus struggling to survive during the Great Depression, making one-night stands in town after endless town. A veterinary student who almost earned his degree, Jacob is put in charge of caring for the circus menagerie. It is there that he meets Marlena, the beautiful young star of the equestrian act, who is married to August, the charismatic but twisted animal trainer. He also meets Rosie, an elephant who seems untrainable until he discovers a way to reach her.

Beautifully written, Water for Elephants is illuminated by a wonderful sense of time and place. It tells a story of a love between two people that overcomes incredible odds in a world in which even love is a luxury that few can afford.
2007
(amazon) - a taut, darkly witty, and galvanizing tale of one woman's search for the truth about her parentage. Clarissa's enigmatic mother left her family, including her retarded son, when Clarissa was 14, and vanished without a trace. A dozen years later, Clarissa is languishing in a stale relationship and going nowhere with her work editing movie subtitles when her father abruptly dies, and a gaping hole opens in her past. Now it's Clarissa's turn to disappear as she journeys to Lapland and the world of the Sami, an indigenous people who still herd reindeer. With skilled distillation, Vida evokes a culture on the brink of extinction and a legacy of loss as her anxious yet adventurous protagonist throws herself on the mercy of strangers in an otherworldly realm of deep cold, hard drinking, a hotel constructed of snow and ice, the northern lights, and long memories. Brilliantly distilled, blade-sharp, and as dangerously exhilarating as skating in the dark. 
2008
Tomato Girl; Jayne Pupek
(Publisher's Weekly) -The absorbing, unsettling debut from Pupek centers on 11-year-old Ellie Sanders, who has already seen a lot of heartache in her short, rural mid-20th-century Virginia childhood. Her beautiful but troubled mother, Julia, who today would probably be diagnosed as bipolar, has frequent outbursts necessitating restraints and horse tranquilizers, administered by Ellie's father, Rupert. When a pregnant Julia suffers a bad fall, Rupert uses the incident to bring home more trouble, in the form of Tess, the teenage tomato girl who supplies his general store with home-grown produce. Intended as a caretaker for Julia and Ellie (and a bedmate for himself), Tess, who has troubles of her own, instead initiates a series of increasingly horrific events that leaves the family irreversibly altered. Issues of racial and religious intolerance are touched on lightly, but the real focus of this accomplished debut is the fatalistic accounting of the events engulfing Ellie. Although Ellie's voice is not always consistent with her youth, she's an effective narrator whose storytelling naïveté nicely underscores her innocence. 
2009
(2 books tied for the #1 spot for me)  
 Cutting for Stone; Abraham Verghese
(wonderful audio book experience)
(Publisher's Weekly) - a magnificent, sweeping novel that moves from India to Ethiopia to an inner-city hospital in New York City over decades and generations. Sister Mary Joseph Praise, a devout young nun, leaves the south Indian state of Kerala in 1947 for a missionary post in Yemen. During the arduous sea voyage, she saves the life of an English doctor bound for Ethiopia, Thomas Stone, who becomes a key player in her destiny when they meet up again at Missing Hospital in Addis Ababa. Seven years later, Sister Praise dies birthing twin boys: Shiva and Marion, the latter narrating his own and his brothers long, dramatic, biblical story set against the backdrop of political turmoil in Ethiopia, the life of the hospital compound in which they grow up and the love story of their adopted parents, both doctors at Missing. The boys become doctors as well and Vergheses weaving of the practice of medicine into the narrative is fascinating even as the story bobs and weaves with the power and coincidences of the best 19th-century novel. 
2009
 The Help; Kathryn Stockett
(amazon) - What perfect timing for this optimistic, uplifting debut novel (and maiden publication of Amy Einhorn's new imprint) set during the nascent civil rights movement in Jackson, Miss., where black women were trusted to raise white children but not to polish the household silver. Eugenia Skeeter Phelan is just home from college in 1962, and, anxious to become a writer, is advised to hone her chops by writing about what disturbs you. The budding social activist begins to collect the stories of the black women on whom the country club sets relies and mistrusts enlisting the help of Aibileen, a maid who's raised 17 children, and Aibileen's best friend Minny, who's found herself unemployed more than a few times after mouthing off to her white employers. The book Skeeter puts together based on their stories is scathing and shocking, bringing pride and hope to the black community, while giving Skeeter the courage to break down her personal boundaries and pursue her dreams. Assured and layered, full of heart and history, this one has bestseller written all over it. 
2010
 
  The Bells; Richard Harvell
(Booklist)
Born in a belfry in the Uri Valley of the Swiss Alps, where his deaf-mute mother rang the Loudest Bells on Earth, Moses Froben possesses both a remarkably sensitive ear and an exquisite singing voice, enabling him to overcome his humble origins to become Lo Suizzero, the musical toast of Europe in the eighteenth century. In papers left for the son he raised but did not sire, Froben recounts being rescued from his father’s murderous plan by monks Nicolai and Remus and taken to their abbey, where the choirmaster recognizes the boy’s gift and goes to inhumane lengths to preserve it. In the neighboring town, Moses meets Amalia Duft, daughter of the area’s wealthiest man, whose love becomes a beacon for his life even after his castration. Despite an opening note that reveals part of the story, Harvell builds suspense as Moses struggles against the superior forces of the noble family Amalia is forced by duplicity to marry into, reaching a bittersweet conclusion. Taking few liberties with history, Harvell has fashioned an engrossing first novel ringing with sounds; a musical and literary treat.
What books have you loved?  

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Waiting on Wednesday

Waiting on Wednesday is a weekly event hosted by Jill at Breaking the Spine that spotlights upcoming releases that we are eagerly anticipating! Want to participate? Post your own WOW entry on your blog, and leave your link at Breaking the Spine. Here is one that I've been curious about:


The Coffins of Little Hope; Timothy Schaffert
(April-2011 - Unbridled Books)

Timothy Schaffert has created his most memorable character yet in Essie, an octogenarian obituary writer for her family's small town newspaper. When a young country girl is reported to be missing, perhaps whisked away by an itinerant aerial photographer, Essie stumbles onto the story of her life. Or, it all could be simply a hoax, or a delusion, the child and child-thief invented from the desperate imagination of a lonely, lovelorn woman. Either way, the story of the girl reaches far and wide, igniting controversy, attracting curiosity-seekers and cult worshippers from all over the country to this dying rural town. And then it is revealed that the long awaited final book of an infamous series of ya Gothic novels is being secretly printed on the newspaper's presses. The Coffins of Little Hope tells a feisty, energetic story of characters caught in the intricately woven webs of myth, legend and deception even as Schaffert explores with his typical exquisite care and sharp eye the fragility of childhood, the strength of family, the powerful rumor mills of rural America, and the sometimes dramatic effects of pop culture on the way we shape our world.

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Time Wasters ~ Why I'm Reading Less ~ Apps

Of course I LOVE books, love reading, but find myself reading a bit less lately. It's not my fault it. I blame it on an addictive personality, my husband, my iPad, iPhone, and Apple in general.  Here is how I wasted spent too many hours over this (3) day weekend.

This is the major reason. You start out with 100 points, and if you get to zero they reload you with 100 points.  My husband and I are competing to see who keeps the higher score. We are both in the 4,100-4,300 point range. The cool thing about this particular poker game is that it has a double down feature, so when you win, you have a chance to double your winnings.  


The premise is simple -- use a slingshot to launch angry birds into the air. Their mission? Destroy the evil pigs.
Check out the video in case you are not familiar with this one.

What are some of your favorite time wasters or Apps?
(I need more distractions)

PS....It is snowing yet again 3-5" predicted on top of the 18".

Monday, January 17, 2011

Mailbox Monday ~ January 17th



Mailbox Monday is the gathering place for readers to share the books that came into their house during the previous week. Original host was Marcia at The Printed Page, but now on blog tour, with Rose City Reader is hosting during the month of January.  (3) new books this week:



  • Major Pettigrew's Last Stand; Helen Simonson (gift card purchase; so many of you are to blame for this one): -
    In her charming debut novel, Simonson tells the tale of Maj. Ernest Pettigrew, an honor-bound Englishman and widower, and the very embodiment of duty and pride. As the novel opens, the major is mourning the loss of his younger brother, Bertie, and attempting to get his hands on Bertie's antique Churchill shotgun—part of a set that the boys' father split between them, but which Bertie's widow doesn't want to hand over. While the major is eager to reunite the pair for tradition's sake, his son, Roger, has plans to sell the heirloom set to a collector for a tidy sum. As he frets over the guns, the major's friendship with Jasmina Ali—the Pakistani widow of the local food shop owner—takes a turn unexpected by the major (but not by readers). The author's dense, descriptive prose wraps around the reader like a comforting cloak, eventually taking on true page-turner urgency as Simonson nudges the major and Jasmina further along and dangles possibilities about the fate of the major's beloved firearms. This is a vastly enjoyable traipse through the English countryside and the long-held traditions of the British aristocracy.
  • Sing You Home; Jodi Picoult (Simon and Schuster) - color me excited about this one - Popular author Picoult tackles the controversial topic of gay rights in her latest powerful tale. When music therapist Zoe Baxter’s latest pregnancy ends in a stillbirth, her husband Max decides he can’t handle any more heartbreak and leaves her. As she picks up the pieces of her life, Zoe is surprised to find herself falling for a school counselor who happens to be a woman. While Zoe is finding happiness with Vanessa, Max falls off the wagon and is helped by a pastor from his brother’s evangelical church. Vanessa and Zoe wed in Massachusetts, and Vanessa offers to carry one of the fertilized embryos Zoe and Max stored. Excited by the prospect of being a mother, Zoe goes to Max to get him to release the embryos to her and is shocked when he instead sues her for custody of them, backed by his church. Told from the perspectives of all three major characters, Picoult’s gripping novel explores all sides of the hot-button issue and offers a CD of folk songs that reflect Zoe’s feelings throughout the novel.
  • The Shadow of What We Were; Luis Sepulveda  -
    Sepúlveda packs more than three decades of Chilean history into this lean and darkly humorous novel. Three aging revolutionaries—Cacho Salinas, Lolo Garmendia, and Lucho Arancibia—reunite to pull off one final, spectacular heist, gathering in a hideout to await the arrival of the Shadow, a legendary Robin Hood–type anarchist. As the comrades with their graying beards, thinning hair, and chubby physiques wait, they revisit the past and ruminate on losses: after Pinochet's coup, Cacho and Lolo fled to Europe, while Lucho, whose brothers were murdered by the regime, stayed and endured torture that has left him brain damaged. Meanwhile, and unbeknownst to the trio, the Shadow lies dead on the sidewalk, struck down by a freak accident. Although the narrator frequently runs away with the story, trailing off into history lessons, Sepúlveda maintains a high level of suspense as the police investigate the Shadow's death, and Cacho, Lolo, and Lucho decide whether to go through with their plan, turning their collective sorrows into a celebration of the resilience of the human spirit.
     
    Hope you received some terrific books this week as well.

Sunday, January 16, 2011

Sunday Salon ~ January 16th


I hope everyone has had a great week. Those of us on the East Coast have been recovering from this weeks heavy snowfall. Someone had commented on how efficient the plow crews must be here based on the fact that with 18-20" of snow work was only closed for one day and a (2) hour delay the following day.  I guess, with all of the snow we are use to in the Northeast, they finally have the routine down pat.  The side streets were still pretty messy the day after but main roads were fine.  When I got to work on Thursday I could not believe all the snow on the seating area outside of the library. Even allowing for some drifting, clearly more than 18" fell here:




A week after my SIL's surgery for breast cancer, her follow up visit with her surgeon came with good news. The nodes that were sent to pathology came back clean, so although she still must see an Oncologist next week, possibly for some hormone therapy drugs, it is unlikely that she will need any chemotherapy or radiation therapy after her mastectomy. Whew....we are all breathing easier, and except for a nasty cold, she is doing well for a week after surgery. THANK YOU once again for all the kindness you have showed. I appreciate it.

 

I know there is a lot of disagreement over whether readers prefer eBooks or a real old-fashion book.  I was in the "old-fashion book" camp all along, but have to say that there are a lot of pluses when reading on my Kindle.

Reason #1) -  I love eating lunch at work and only needing one finger to turn the page. Reason #2 - I love having (currently) about 40 books in my pocketbook at one time (all weighing just a few ounces). Reason #3) - Your eyes get tired more easily as you get older, and I can read for longer stints on my Kindle, than I can with a regular book and Reason #4 - I love sunlight, and I can read in the sun with no screen glare.   
Are you an eBook convert? If so, do you have other reasons you sometimes prefer an eBook?

I currently have (3) books going right now, all on different devices, and am loving them all. How often does that happen?
  1. Matterhorn; Karl Marlentes (audio book) (wonderful Vietnam tell all novel written by one who was there)
  2. The Emperor of All Maladies: A Biography of Cancer; Mukherjee - eBook (FASCINATING)
  3. How to Read the Air; Dinaw Mengestu (print book) (beautiful writing; compelling story)
How has your weekend been going?  I'm trying to relax and get over a head cold (it's going around). I have an extra day off with Monday being Martin Luther King Day.  Hope you all have a beautiful week.