Tuesday, March 8, 2016

First Chapter First Paragraph Tuesday Intros - The Good Death: An Exploration of Dying in America; Ann Neumann



Every Tuesday I host First Chapter First Paragraph Tuesday Intros where I share the first paragraph sometimes two from a book I am reading or thinking about reading soon -- another NF  for me.

Beacon Press - 2016

Chapter One

Terminal Restlessness

" I placed the tiny white pill on the US Army spoon my father had used to eat cereal for nearly forty years.  From a white plastic bottle, about the size and shape of a small flask, I extracted five drops of pink liquid morphine.  I released each drop one by one onto the spoon and used the tip of the dropper to push the Ativan in slow circles until it dissolved.  Then I sucked the mixture back up into the dropper.  Morphine takes your pain away. Ativan calms you down.  I wanted to lick the spoon."

What do you think -- keep reading or pass? 
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Monday, March 7, 2016

I See You Made an Effort: Compliments, Indignities, and Survival Stories from the Edge of 50; Annabelle Gurwitch


Actress and comedian, Annabelle Gurwitch entertains readers with a sometimes LOL collection of (16) essays which reflect on how life changes for women as they approach the big 50 milestone. The book is only 240 pages and some of the essays are only a couple of pages long, others are slightly longer.  The author maintains that the only way for women to deal with aging is to have a sense of humor.

The essays touch on a variety of aging issues: the sandwich generation, children at home and aging parents, menopause, new aches and pains, fighting the wrinkle battle, finding a new way to dress that is age appropriate and also helps to hide the midriff bulge of middle age.

The stories are personal and funny and, I suspect that most women 50+ will find some passages which will resonate with them in more ways than one.  It's a light fluffy read, that is perfect for your nightstand.  I enjoyed reading a few essays each evening before bed over the course of a couple of weeks.  Although some readers may find some of language offensive at times, overall I think that this might be just the kind of humor that works once you realize that you have no choice but to laugh about getting older.  I think this would be a fun book club discussion book especially for groups with older members. 

4/5 stars
(review copy sent by publisher)

(Here's an Intro from the first Essay) ----STAY FUNNY

"On the day I turned forty-nine the first solicitation from AARP appeared in my email in-box.  At a glance, I thought it might be an ad for white-collar prison uniforms.  A couple is pictured dressed in matching cotton pastel sweaters and pleated Dockers.  The entire outfit screams, Here, take my libido and hold it for the rest of my life, which won't last much longer anyway.  The man has his arms encircling the woman's waist.  Is he propping her up because she's suffering from osteoporosis, or helpfully disguising her muffin top?  The expressions on their faces can only be described as resigned."

Friday, March 4, 2016

In the Blood; Lisa Unger

In the Blood; Lisa Unger
Simon & Schuster Audio -2014

In the Blood is a psychological thriller that really held my interest. The audio book was easy to listen to and quite enjoyable.

The story for the most part is told from the POV of Lana Granger, a psychology student at a small college.  The reader learns early on that Lana had a rough childhood at the hands of an abusive father and that her mother is dead.  Left with a trust fund that is all but depleted, she takes a job as a nanny for Luke, a young, trouble boy, who is more than his mother can handle.  Luke's mother seems to have some secrets of her own and, it is easy to surmise that Lana is an unreliable narrator which makes this thriller all the more interesting and suspenseful. To add even another piece to this thriller, Lana's close friend Beck, goes missing at the beginning of the novel and Lana was the last person with her, so the police are anxious to question Lana about Beck's disappearance.

The way the story rolls out is not entirely smooth, but it didn't take away from my enjoyment. First we learn bits and pieces about Lana's terrible childhood, but never enough to know her whole story.  Then we learn that she was the last person to see her best friend, and then there was her nanny job with a sometimes violent Luke.  There were times when I wondered who had the most baggage and who was the most disturbed character in this thriller.  I patiently waited to find out more about Lana's secret past.  

Although I figured out some of this thriller, there were a few surprises.  Lana was a terrific character, unlikable yet interesting all the same.  Everything is revealed by the end and, although I enjoyed this story, I can see some readers being upset with certain elements and how the story played out.  Lisa Unger is a talented writer of psychological thrillers, I always look forward to her books.

4/5 stars
(audio book sent by the publisher)


Thursday, March 3, 2016

Coming Soon to a Book Store Near You - (3) New picks


I have so many of my own books to read but, still I can't resist checking out what's "soon to be released".  How do these sound to you?

Harper Collins - April - 2016

(Amazon Description)
A portrait of a woman, an era, and a profession: the first thoroughly researched biography of Meryl Streep—the “Iron Lady” of acting, nominated for nineteen Oscars and winner of three—that explores her beginnings as a young woman of the 1970s grappling with love, feminism, and her astonishing talent.
In 1975 Meryl Streep, a promising young graduate of the Yale School of Drama, was finding her place in the New York theater scene. Burning with talent and ambition, she was like dozens of aspiring actors of the time—a twenty-something beauty who rode her bike everywhere, kept a diary, napped before performances, and stayed out late “talking about acting with actors in actors’ bars.” Yet Meryl stood apart from her peers. In her first season in New York, she won attention-getting parts in back-to-back Broadway plays, a Tony Award nomination, and two roles in Shakespeare in the Park productions. Even then, people said, “Her. Again.”
Her Again is an intimate look at the artistic coming-of-age of the greatest actress of her generation, from the homecoming float at her suburban New Jersey high school, through her early days on the stage at Vassar College and the Yale School of Drama during its golden years, to her star-making roles in The Deer Hunter, Manhattan, and Kramer vs. Kramer. New Yorker contributor Michael Schulman brings into focus Meryl’s heady rise to stardom on the New York stage; her passionate, tragically short-lived love affair with fellow actor John Cazale; her marriage to sculptor Don Gummer; and her evolution as a young woman of the 1970s wrestling with changing ideas of feminism, marriage, love, and sacrifice.
Featuring eight pages of black-and-white photos, this captivating story of the making of one of the most revered artistic careers of our time reveals a gifted young woman coming into her extraordinary talents at a time of immense transformation, offering a rare glimpse into the life of the actress long before she became an icon.

Houghton-Mifflin Harcourt - April 2016
(Amazon Description)

The incandescent story of a 104-year-old woman and the sweet, strange young boy assigned to help her around the house — a friendship that touches each member of the boy’s unmoored family

For years, guitarist Quinn Porter has been on the road, chasing gig after gig, largely absent to his twice-ex-wife Belle and their odd, Guinness records–obsessed son. When the boy dies suddenly, Quinn seeks forgiveness for his paternal shortcomings by completing the requirements for his son’s unfinished Boy Scout badge.
 
For seven Saturdays, Quinn does yard work for Ona Vitkus, the wily 104-year-old Lithuanian immigrant the boy had visited weekly. Quinn soon discovers that the boy had talked Ona into gunning for the world record for Oldest Licensed Driver — and that’s the least of her secrets. Despite himself, Quinn picks up where the boy left off, forging a friendship with Ona that allows him to know the son he never understood, a boy who was always listening, always learning.
 
The One-in-a-Million Boy is a richly layered novel of hearts broken seemingly beyond repair and then bound by a stunning act of human devotion.

My Mrs. Brown; William Norwich
Simon & Schuster - April 2016

(Amazon Description)

From William Norwich, the well-known fashion writer and editor, an unforgettable novel about a woman with a secret who travels to New York City on a determined quest to buy a special dress that represents everything she wants to say about that secret…and herself.

Sometimes a dress isn’t just a dress.

Emilia Brown is a woman of a certain age. She has spent a frugal, useful, and wholly restrained life in Ashville, a small town in Rhode Island. Overlooked especially by the industries of fashion and media, Mrs. Brown is one of today’s silent generations of women whose quiet no-frills existences would make them seem invisible. She is a genteel woman who has known her share of personal sorrows and quietly carried on, who makes a modest living cleaning and running errands at the local beauty parlor, who delights in evening chats with her much younger neighbor, twenty-three-year-old Alice Danvers.

When the grand dame of Ashville passes away, Mrs. Brown is called upon to inventory her estate and comes across a dress that changes everything. This isn’t a Cinderella confection; it’s a simple yet exquisitely tailored Oscar de la Renta sheath and jacket—a suit that Mrs. Brown realizes, with startling clarity, will say everything she has ever wished to convey. She must have it. And so Mrs. Brown begins her odyssey to purchase the dress. For not only is the owning of the Oscar de la Renta a must, the intimidating trip to purchase it on Madison Avenue is essential as well. If the dress is to give Mrs. Brown a voice, then she must prepare by making the daunting journey—both to the emerald city and within herself.

Timeless, poignant, and appealing, My Mrs. Brown is a novel for every mother in the world, every woman who ever wanted the perfect dress, and every child who wanted to give it to her.

Wednesday, March 2, 2016

Eleanor; Jason Gurley

Eleanor; Jason Gurley
Crown - 2016

Eleanor and Esmerelda Witt were identical twins with a unique closeness. The sisters even shared a special language that was theirs alone. One day a tragic accident claims the life of 6 year old Esme which tears the family apart and forever alters Eleanor's life.  Eleanor is left with a unique ability to escape to strange alternate realities.

Eleanor is such a tragic story. The characters are so hollow with grief that they seem unaware of the pain they were inflicting on others who were suffering over the same loss.  It was hard to read about Eleanor and all the emotional pain she had to endure after the loss of her twin and while caring for her alcoholic mother who was so abusive.

This is a terrific story. The writing is wonderful, the characters, even the minor ones, were so beautifully drawn --warts and all.  As I read it was easy to see why the characters did some of the things they did.  Even though I'm not a fantasy fan, I enjoyed traveling into Eleanor's alternate reality proving that sometimes reading outside of our comfort zones is a good thing. This is a book that left a lasting impression. Readers who enjoy stories about family dysfunction and mother/daughter struggles should enjoy this beautifully crafted story. 

4.5/5 stars
(review copy)


Tuesday, March 1, 2016

First Chapter First Paragraph Tuesday Intros - The Vegetarian; Han Kang


Leap Year messed with my Tuesday intro post this week. Even though I played around with the Mr. Linky, it assumed today was the day this post should be revealed LOL



Every Tuesday I host First Chapter First Paragraph Tuesday Intros where I share the first paragraph sometimes two from a book I am reading or thinking about reading soon.  


The Vegetarian; Han Kang
Hogarth - 2016

"Before my wife turned vegetarian I'd always thought of her as completely unremarkable in every way.  To be frank, the first time I met her I wasn't even attracted to her. Middling height, bobbed hair neither long or short; jaundiced, sickly-looking skin; somewhat prominent cheekbones; her timid, sallow aspect told me all I needed to know. As she came up to the table where I was waiting, I couldn't help but notice her shoes--the plainest black shoes imaginable.  And that walk of hers--neither fast nor slow, striding nor mincing."


What do you think -- keep reading or pass? 
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Sunday, February 28, 2016

Week in Review ~ New Books and Monthly Reading Update



How was your week everyone? We had a little scare this week as our middle granddaughter  (LEFT) had pneumonia. She and Grover were so good about taking their breathing treatments though and both made a nice recovery.  This 22 month old little peanut has been sick so often: ear infections, then tubes which popped out after 3-4 months, stomach bugs and lots of colds as well. She is not a good eater at all and her big sister is in preschool so perhaps she brings the germs home with her.


If you have a cat who loves to play try this fun cat dancing toy.
  Only $3.99 on Amazon.
It was an immediate hit with our cats and great exercise for them as well.

This Week in Books 

My book group met this week to discuss The Bell Jar; Sylvia Plath. II seems inappropriate to say most everyone "enjoyed" this book as the story is a dark one, but it sure provided for a lively discussion.  Surprisingly, almost everyone in the group of 12 knew someone who lost a loved one to suicide. This was a reread for me but, even more enjoyable this time around. Despite it being a dark read, I loved the humor as I read as well.  Next months read is Z: Zelda

Reviewed 
Finished Reading (no review yet)

In Progress
New Books

(Monthly Reading Summary)

  1. When Breath Becomes Air; Paul Kalanithi (NF/memoir) - 4.5/5 (audio) (Jan)
  2. Looking Back: A Chronicle of Growing Up Old in the Sixties; Joyce Maynard - 5/5 (NF/memoir) (library) (Feb)
  3. American Housewife: Stories; Helen Ellis - 2.5/5 (audio & eGalley) (Feb)
  4. The Madwoman Upstairs; Catherine Lowell - 4/5 (eGalley) (Feb)
  5. French Leave; Gavalda - 4/5 (print-my shelves) (Feb)
  6. River Road; Carol Goodman - 4/5 (print-publisher) (Feb)
  7. Love in Lowercase; Francesc Miralles - 4/5 (print-publisher) (Feb)
  8. 13 Ways of Looking at a Fat Girl; Mona Awad - 3.5/5 (print-publisher) (Feb)
  9. The Bell Jar; Sylvia Plath - 5/5 (library-reread) (Feb)
  10. Good to a Fault; Marina Endicott - 4/5 stars (print-my shelves) (Feb)
  • Eleanor; Jason Gurley - Read but no review yet (very good - read it)
  •                Miller's Valley; Anna Quindlen  - Read but no review yet (very good - read it)
YTD STATS
Books Read - 25
(3) NF - 22 (Fiction)
(3) translated works
(4) debut
(6) Library Books
(3) audio books
(4) ARCS
(6) eGalleys
(6) my shelf
(I'm most pleased that 24% on  the books that I read in 2016 were books from my shelves.  I also donated 126 books this month bringing my unread print books on my shelves down to - 299.  I hope to bring this down to 250 by the end of the year. How's your reading going in 2016?

This Week's Plans

Today I'm meeting a friend for coffee.  I haven't seen her since I retired in July and she is retiring in May so we will have plenty to talk about I'm sure.  Friday we'll be celebrating my DIL and SIL's birthdays. We have so many February through April birthdays in our family.  Hope you all have a great week.