Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Help Me Please


Google Reader, Google Friend Connect, Email subscriptions........lately I've felt overwhelmed keeping up with all the blogs that I love to read. I don't feel like I have been doing a great job, visiting or commenting. I am hoping that I have not missed some important posts, missed some exciting book reviews, lovely photos or some other big news in your life.

I tried updating my feeds and consolidating my lists. Some blogs have been inactive for over (6) months, and I'm guessing that these individuals either change host sites (and I missed that) or they have stopped blogging entirely.

If you know that I read your blog from comments that I leave you from time to time, but you do not see yourself listed in my BLOGROLL (in my right sidebar), I may have lost you somehow as I gathered URLs from different sources. If this is the case, would you be so kind to email me at bibliophilebythesea AT gmail DOT COM so I can add you back in?  I don't want to lose touch. Thanks so much.

Monday, April 11, 2011

The Bird Sisters; Rebecca Rasmussen


(Isn't this cover gorgeous?)

Title: The Bird Sisters
Author: Rebecca Rasmussen
Publication Year: 2011
Publisher: Crown
Edition: Hardcover
Source: Author
Date Completed: 4/11/2011
Setting: Wisconsin
Rating: 5/5 stars
Recommend: yes 

"Whenever a bird flies into a window in Spring Green, Wisconsin, sisters Milly and Twiss get a visit. Twiss listens to the birds' heartbeats, assessing what she can fix and what she can't, while Milly listens to the heartaches of the people who've brought them. The two sisters have spent their lives nursing people and birds back to health.".

Known to most, in the small town of Spring Green, Wisconsin, as "The Bird Sisters",  life for these spinster sisters, destined them to always be together.  As young girls, Milly, was a beautiful girl, who was in love with Asa; she dreamed of marriage and children. Twiss, was somewhat of a fun-loving, wild spirit who enjoyed her freedom. Life, as we know, does not always turn out as we planned, and for Milly and Twiss, the summer of 1947, when the sisters were teenagers, was the turning point in their lives that carved out what would be their future--- growing old together in their childhood home.

The story moves from present time back to that summer of 1947, and it is told in alternating chapters. The reader gets a glimpse into the sister's parents troubled marriage, their mother's frustrations and regrets, their father's downward fall from his job as a respected golf pro, and also what transpired the summer older cousin Bette came to visit. Bit by bit the reader understands the events that determined the course of their adult lives.

From  the very beginning I was anxious to find out what happened that was so horrible to cause the lives of Milly and Twiss to turn out the way they did. The sister characters are so finely honed,  so much so that I felt emotionally invested in them early on. Although their lives made me sad, I admired how devoted they were to one another.  There is so much more that I could say, however, I want to be careful not to say too much. The Bird Sisters was a terrific debut novel. It's written in a style that worked well for me: a character driven novel with memorable but flawed characters, a story that hooks you early on and keeps you turning the pages, and just one of those stories that will keep me talking about this book for a long while.

In some ways this book made me think of (2) other books I read and loved as well over the last several years: Tomato Girl; Jane Pupek and Saving Cee Cee Honeycutt; Beth Hoffman. As with The Bird Sisters, these books left a lasting impression, each were debut novels, and each in their own way moved me deeply.  Three MUST READS for your summer reading list.

I loved reading what the author says, inspired her to write this story ----- 


From the Author

I grew up in Spring Green, Wisconsin, but I also grew up in Northfield, Illinois--sadly, when I was a baby, my parents divorced. Because my life was split between the two places, I never really felt that either belonged to me and I still don't today. I suppose that's why in my fiction, I pay very close attention to place; I'm constantly searching for a way to make home feel like home. My stories tend to come out of the swollen look of a river, or an iced over fishing hole, or a bird on a winter branch. The idea for The Bird Sisters came out of two things: my curiosity about my grandmother and her family history, and my devotion to finding the answer to the ongoing question in my life: what does it mean to be home? For Milly and Twiss, I extended the question a little bit further: what does it mean to stay there? My grandmother Kathryn--Kit, she liked to be called--lost both of her parents when she was seventeen, her mother by way of Scarlett Fever (although the people who knew her best said she died of a broken heart) and her father by way of a broken leg and then a fatal blood clot. Her father, my great grandfather, was a wonderfully talented golfer who gave lessons to wealthy members of whatever golf course he was working at. Unfortunately, my great grandfather turned out to be a wonderfully talented philanderer, too. Those are the facts; what interests me is what came between them. My grandmother lived her life with questions about her parents that she couldn't bring herself to ask. "They were the best parents ever," she'd say one day, but then another she'd say, "I don't know if they really were." She carried a loneliness around inside of her that she couldn't bear to share with anyone because talking about what had happened made her more and more uncertain about whether or not she was loved. My grandmother had a sister named Virginia, whom she wrote a card to a few times a year and visited even less frequently. I've always wondered what might have happened if she and Virginia had been able to hold onto each other when everything else was slipping away from them. I've always wondered if my grandmother might have then found happiness in her life. Milly and Twiss are my gift to her, my proof of love. The book is a gift to myself, proof that I have a home in the hills of Spring Green, in the green of the rivergrass and the brown of the fields beyond. Writing the book, which I completed during my tenure in the MFA Program at the University of Massachusetts, has taught me that home doesn't always translate to four sturdy white walls. The Bird Sisters is my first novel. 

Mailbox Monday - April 11th


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Sunday, April 10, 2011

Creating Great iPhone Photos; Apps, Tips, Tricks and Effects; Allan Hoffman


Title:  Creating Great iPhone Photos
Author: Allan Hoffman
Publication Year: 2011
Publisher: No Starch Press
Edition: Softcover
Source: Amazon Vine
Date Completed: 4/9/2011
Setting: n/a
Rating: 5/5 stars
Recommend: YES -  A must have for iPhone photo takers everywhere.

I never thought the camera on my iPhone would replace my Sony DSC-W330 camera (which I love), but it has.  The reason...my iPhone is always at my side, and I find myself constantly snapping photos of, pets, nature, family and friends. It is so quick and easy.

The original iPhone camera was not that great, but the new iPhone 4 camera is a terrific improvement. With zoom, video, face talk and more, the pictures I take are so much better. I still though, they could be improved, and recently discovered this wonderful reference book, with so much useful information. I learned that there are so very many free apps like Adobe Photo Shop Express, Color Effects, Photobucket and many many more. Each enables you to do something more to or with your iPhone photos and lets you share them without even the need of your computer.

Here is a blurb right from the book:
  • Produce stunning panoramas, vintage-style photo booth strips, and super-saturated Polaroid-style photos with a hip, 1970s look
  • Unlock the secret power of the iPhone's camera with burst mode, high dynamic range (HDR) effects, exposure and focus controls, and more
  • Find and install the best iPhone apps for cropping images, adjusting contrast and exposure, and editing photos to achieve eye-popping results
  • Publish and share images right from the iPhone, without the need for memory cards, cables, or complex desktop photo-editing tools
There is so much more that I learned from this book as well, and loved the fact that the are color images that show you how photo quality can be improved by doing certain things. Excellent resource guide.

Friday, April 8, 2011

The Night Season; Chelsea Cain

 Title: The Night Season (book #4 of a series)
Author: Chelsea Cain 
Publication Year: 2011
Publisher: MacMillian Audio
Edition: audiobook
Reader: Chelsea Cain
Source: Amazon Vine
Date Completed: 4/5/2011 
Setting: Oregon
Rating: 2/5
Recommend: No
I have been of fan of Chelsea Cain's, Archie Sheridan and Gretchen Lowell novels, for the last several years. In Heartsick, Sweetheart, and Evil at Heart, the stars are, Archie Sheridan, a police detective from Portland, Oregon, and Gretchen Lowell, a serial killer who has played cat and mouse, tormenting Archie, landing him in a psych hospital briefly, hooked on painkillers, but finally as of the last novel she is behind bars.  The other two characters are Henry Sobol, Archie's partner, and Susan Ward, a newspaper columnist that Archie has the hots for. I wondered what direction her new book would take without Gretchen, the serial killer, to keep readers on the edge of their seats, and biting their fingernails as they turned each new page.  I was anxious to find out what Night Season had in store.

In this latest offering, Archie Sheridan and  fellow partner Henry Sobol have their work cut out for them. Susan Ward is another returning character, who, in this novel is covering a story about a flooding which had wiped out a town many years earlier.

The story opens with a horrific flood in 1948 that wiped out the entire town of Vanport. Some 15 people who lived in a public housing project at that time, lost their lives.  The story then flashes to the present time when once again heavy rains, and flooding are occurring in the Portland area. A skeleton surfaces around a dog park, with origins from as far back as the flood of 1948. Before long a woman who was reported missing turns up dead, and two more people who were thought to have died from drowning, turn out to have strange bite marks on their bodies, and tests show they have been poisoned.

Without saying much more about the serial killer, the source of the poisonous toxin, or how the story ended, I'll just say that I was extremely disappointed in this thriller.  It was not a nail biter like Cain's previous three novels, and quite frankly, once the mystery began to unravel, I thought the whole story was far fetched and just plain crazy. The audio book was read by the author and the reading was well done, however the story itself left me disappointed. For me, I think it is probably time to try a new thriller series. 

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Blue Chameleon; Emily Gravett


Title: Blue Chameleon
Author: Emily Gravett
Publication Year: 2011
Publisher: Simon and Schuster Kids
Edition: Hardcover
Source: Library
Date Completed: 4/72011
Setting: n/a
Rating: 4/5 stars
Recommend: Yes

The Blue Chameleon is a picture book about shapes and colors for young readers. The Blue Chameleon is (as you probably guessed) lonely.  He crawls along hoping to meet a friend, each time he meets a critter or object he'd like to have for a friend, he so wants to fit in, that he turns the same color as them. He becomes yellow like the banana, gold - like the fish, pink like a cockatoo, green like the grasshopper etc. Frustrated that he can't find a friend, he turn gray like the rock he is sitting on, exclaiming "I give up". Until one day he meet the perfect friend who is just as colorful as him.

The text is minimal in this book. There is basically just one word on each page. One page consists of a color (the color the chameleon has become), and on the opposite is the name of same color object. The illustrations are cute, and I could see how this would be a useful book for teaching very young children their colors. I think this book might have been better as a board book, as it is suited to the very youngest of readers.

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Women Food and God; Geneen Roth


Title: Women Food and God
Author: Geneen Roth
Publication Year: 2010
Publisher: Simon and Schuster
Edition: Trade Softcover/2011
Source: Publisher
Date Completed: 4/5/2011
Setting: n/a
Rating: 4.5/5 stars
Recommend: yes

When I first received this book in the mail, I wasn't sure it was for me.  I consider myself to be more of a spiritual person than a religious person, so I was concerned that the book might be preachy -- it is not. The title is very misleading, and the author even states that God means different things to different people.  As I read a few pages, something about what the author was saying seemed to resonate with me. The author states:  

"The way you eat is inseparable from your core beliefs about being alive. Your relationship with food is an exact mirror of your feelings about love, fear, anger meaning, transformation, and yes, even God."

The author, at an early age, began to use food as a way to ease her pain. She has gained and lost some 1,000 pounds over the years and has dealt with obesity, bulimia and even anorexia. Roth writes: 

"At eleven, I felt like a raw nerve, as if the fact that I took up space at the red Formica table was the reason for the hatred between my parents and their violence toward each other. They threw things, left the house, stayed away for hours or days......Enter food........The sight of a Hostess Sno Ball turned the world into a riot of color. The fluffy, pristine mound of marshmallow sprinkled with coconut. The promise of chocolate cake inside........I turned to food for the same reasons that people turned to God: it was my sigh of ecstasy, my transport to heaven, my concrete proof that relief from the pain of everyday life would be possible. Then it would be gone."

The book is not about dieting or about how to lose weight. Anyone who has struggled with weight knows what they need to do to lose weight. It is more about getting in touch with your feelings and the triggers that drive some of us to food as a means of escape.  It is about learning to confront issues and your feelings: loneliness, anger, resentment etc, and dealing with the issues instead of trying to avoid them with the temporary pleasure our foods of choice might provide.  Temporary satisfaction is all one can expect, before the feelings of loathing and shame resurface, and the cycle is repeated. 

"Compulsive eating is an attempt to avoid the absence (of love, comfort, knowing what to do) when we find ourselves in the desert of a particular moment, feeling, situation.  In the process of resisting the emptiness, in the act of turning away from our feelings, or trying and trying again to lose the same twenty, fifty, eighty pounds, we ignore what what could utterly transform us.  But when we welcome what we most want to avoid, we evoke that in us that is not a story, not caught in the past, not some old image of ourselves. We evoke divinity itself. And in doing so, we can hold happiness, old hurts, fear in our cupped hands and behold our missing hearts."

Roth explains why for some people losing weight, and keeping the weight off is more complex then it may seem to those who have never struggled with serious weight issues.  She divides individuals who have battled with their weight into two groups:  Restrictors and Permitters.

Restrictors, need to be in control -- about themselves, what they eat and their environment.  Permitters, hate rules and tend to use food to numb themselves.  If you have struggled with weight issues, you might be curious to see what your eating habits say about you.
I am a classic Permitter, and it came as no surprise after reading this terrific book.  If you are tired of dieting, and want some insight as to how to get to the root the yo yo weight loss/weight gain cycle, I think you will find this book not only interesting, but helpful as well.

Geneen Roth is the author of the bestseller, When Food is Love and seven other books. She has conducted workshops for over thirty years and has lead retreats for the past ten. Roth is a frequent contributor to many publications including Salon.com, Huffington Post and Good Housekeeping and has appeared on numerous national shows from Oprah, 20/20, Good Morning America, and The View, to Primetime Live and NPR's Talk of the Nation.